What would you do in you were in my shoes?

We all have some non-negotiables in relationships. Infidelity, physical/emotional abuse, drug addiction, etc. My husband knows where I stand on military life. He knows that I don't want to be a military wife. The whole family sacrifices, not just the service member. I have been there before & hated every moment of it. This is a non-negotiable for me. My husband knows this yet he is still considering to join the military. If you were in my shoes, what would you do?