College is about to end: fell in love January, friends February, fear and confusion March, April Showers, May?

If you want to be friends, the first thing to do is to not play mind games with him and to lose the attitude. I don't mean to offend you, but things like rolling your eyes and "playing mind games" is kinda rude and gives off the opposite of wanting to be friends. Also, you said that you want him as a friend but you also said that he needs to flirt. Flirting is for romantic relationships, not friendships. As for his action on facebook, people don't do that just for the heck of it, he had a reason. If you wan to be friends, then you have to change to a more positive attitude towards him and his friends, even if they are female.